oh and dbair, aikman didnt like jimmy for a number of reasons and they didnt even talk to each other for two months in the 90 season culminating in that rams week where babe talked him out of asking for a trade on saturday night only to have aikman tell jimmy that anyway to his face on monday morning if things didnt change.
a quick rundown of his beefs were that jimmy was publically saying they wanted mandarich and walsh because of some conversations with lou holz where jimmy agreed there wasnt much difference in walsh and aikman.
Aikman resented that walker trade because he was a guy he looked up to before he was even on his team.
What got back to aikman the wednesday before the rams game in 90 was that jimmy called aikman a loser in the coaches meetings. It made aikman livid. He already didnt get along with jimmy and he had lost qb coach jerry rhome after the 89 season a guy he liked alot and helped him. he didnt like jimmy's coaching style and the way he handled issues publically.
another thing ironic to your other post, one of aikmans closest friends and a guy who helped him alot babe laufenberg was let go after being promised by jimmy that he would be invited to camp in 91. It angered aikman and made aikman believe jimmy was what he thought he was a liar.
Here is aikmans quote on that week of the rams game in 90.
"Football wasnt fun, I dont care how much money your getting paid. I know the guy out there working construction might not sympathize with this, but the whole idea is for me to enjoy myself. Dallas was definitely the city I wanted to be in, i love the people the attitudes everything about it. But as far as my job, I thought I needed a change, something needed to change."
aikmans intentions were to to go to jimmys hotel suite and tell him he wanted out after hearing the loser comment.
here is the paragraph from the book on it, on top of babes own telling of it.
Instead, Aikman spent some time with Babe Laufenberg, his road roommate, then ducked out of the hotel and met his agent leigh steinberg. Aikman said "they said some things that put my feelings on hold, but I still wasnt sure this was going to work for me."