I'd love to see you detail what you think the correct strategy is.
As a preface, I'm not a foreign policy expert by any means. If you want specific details as to who will be doing what over there, that's not my bag. I took a few classes in alternative dispute resolution and have a certificate in ADR... but I don't practice the stuff every day, especially not in the foreign diplomacy arena.
But if you'll excuse my indulgence in a comparison that I know isn't necessarily apples to apples... I do have some expertise in another area of conflict. I deal with people who are at some of the lowest points of their lives, and who go through wide ranging emotions. Many people are personally invested in their religion, but I would say just about everyone is personally invested in their children. When I'm preparing someone to go to court to fight for their children, I liken it to their own personal war. If we lose a preliminary hearing, I'll try to lessen the sting by saying, "we haven't lost the war." Not that I'm trying to minimize the real world effects of war, but that's what people who are going through this feel like.
I tell my clients that when you go into the courtroom and ask a judge or a jury to make a decision, neither them nor their ex is going to be happy with the result. There is almost always something they wish the judge would have done differently. When they and the ex can come to a resolution on their own, it's almost always better than the judge deciding. And that's just the emotional toll of it... not even considering the financial toll of it.
And to get them to agree to things, they have to willingly give a position up. I'm constantly preaching to my clients to take the high road and not engage in petty tit for tat arguments. Because in the grand scheme of things, those little issues don't mean anything. I encourage them to extend the olive branch first. Most times the parties are so dug into their position any little thing that they give in is perceived as weakness. But it doesn't have to be viewed that way. If you are comfortable with your decision and know why you made the decision, then the other side can think whatever they want... you know the truth as to why you did what you did.
I think the same can apply here. We're obviously talking about actual war here, so we should be even more mindful of the other options available before taking that step. If we go to war, there are going to be casualties that could have been avoided. There will be huge financial tolls that could be avoided and money will be spent that could be put to better use elsewhere.
If we back away and let someone else try to deal with the problem, sure extremists may think they've "won." But we would know better. If they were able to create some type of peace in the region, that would be a win, no matter what the perception of America's role in that is.
Just like Sheik I'm tired of seeing another terrorist attack happened when I turn on the TV... in Europe, Asia, the Middle East, but especially here. I just think we're beating our head against the wall thinking we can just go fix it ourselves, when the over-arching strategy we have used consistently for 30 years hasn't worked. And we have tried a lot of different tactics. Boots on the ground, bombing, diplomacy, covert ops, etc. None of it has solved the problem. At some point, don't we have to consider that the answer may not lie in our hands? Why wouldn't we welcome any new ideas or strategies?
It's like prohibition of alcohol or drugs, or any other illegal substance. How long did the country deal with gang wars associated with prohibition on alcohol? How long have we fought the war on drugs? It wasn't until prohibition was repealed that the bootleggers went away. No amount of federal enforcement was going to catch up to that. Same with cartels now. We're flushing money down the toilet trying to fight them, and imprisoning people who only do damage to themselves. At some point we have to think about taking a new direction there right?
At this point, I think if America is perceived as the face of the other side in any kind of peace negotiations, there won't be a good resolution. But we can be working behind the scenes. We can put pressure on the governments that represent the 85-90% of Sunnis over there to be the face of a resolution. We can step away... The extremists can think they drove us out of the region. Maybe that perceived "win" will nudge them in the right direction.
Really, how much more do we have to see before we consider a different strategy? What do we have to lose by stepping back?