That is actually the "privilege"
Knowing no one will wipe your ass, bail you out or cover for your incompetence forces you to thrive or die and I'm better for it, too bad some people dont understand this "privilege" is free for the taking for anyone who wants it
Sadly, playing the victim seems to scratch some weird itch or evoke false feelings of virtue in humans and those that go down that road will never know the joy of seeing the fruit of ones own labor and the pride & joy that comes from a job well done